What do you do when the time spent with a special someone,becomes a mere formality??
What do you do when the conversations you cherished before,become a mere monologue??
Its never seems to be the same now and you have a feeling it shall never ever be the same again..What now??
**I walk out of it seeking happiness elsewhere..For happiness is a personal choice after all..
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Wow, that's kinda serious.
I've been there and I'm sad because I moved on from that phase which made me a stone. :)
Whats wrong?
u dint tell me that u had sth like this going on in ur head!
u never told me that u were sad n contemplating n stuff!! yehi dosti??
dekh lia!!:(
hmmm..it happens at some particular phase of lyf...time only heals it....
hope u'll b out of dis cul-de-sac soon...
i guess u r not a sinner..u merely need some time to think (n mayb an agony aunt).
well whatever happens happens for the good...u just gotta be positive :D n nothing abt being a sinner... :-|
tc.. :D
I have been through this phase too, and like Anamika above, it has made me into a rock hard person. But you know what, just take it as it comes. Expectations lead to hurt and assumptions lead to sadness. So better not to expect or assume. Just take it as it comes, and if it's meant to be, it will BE no matter how hard you try to break it :)
I am so glad you think of your happiness. Just take it as it comes and live every day to the fullest.
Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a mystery. But today is a gift. That is why it is called "The Present" -- Turtle from KungFu Panda :P
Hmmmm... we all go through this, Nikhs! But that's how life is. Unfair at times.
ull get over this soon..
take care buddy :)
Some decisions in life are tough but important to take anyways and best if it is not influenced by external factors.
(MM, thanks for leaving a comment on mine and leading me here.)
Anamika,
Sometimes I feel life is a lot better with ZERO expectations..Maybe that is a way where I might lose many more ppl,but still ... :) thanks for the insight.. :)
Prachi,
I have been thinking on these lines for quite sometime.. Just that things have taken me to a stage where I am at crossraods with my mind unsure whether I should be putting my ppl at loggerheads with my issues or just pestering them with my stuff..
I think the former is much better for both parties.. dun feel bad now.. :)
Rimz,
Time will heal it..yeah..well said..and thanks for ur insight..blessed!! :)
Anwesa,
:D ur a nice gal.. :) but why an agony aunt now?? :I
Madzzi,
Yeah,even am a firm believer in it too.. :) just hoping my belief stays put with me.. :) thanks a lot madzzi.. u too take care.. :)
Ash,
You have summed it up so wonderfully.. :) GENIUS.. :D yeah,its better not to expect or assume..life is a lot better this way.. :)
Thanks a lot for ur insight..am soo blessed I feel.. :)
Dhanya,
Sathyam!!! Its pretty unfair,though I do not regret it being so.. :)
thanks a lot dan.. :)
Amal,
Hopefully I will.. :) thanks a lot bro..u too take care.. :)
Nikhil
Solilo,
Thanks.. :) some decisions are best when nothing external is working on them be it be for it or against it..
Thanks a lot for dropping by..welcome home.. :)
sad but true this is life... but if life is like this on can always spice it up ..what say?!
Who can??I frankly dun think anyone can..besides,I ges am being a lot better this way..peace!! :)
Been there done that! :)
I second quite a few opinions here.. you'll definitely feel spirited when you'll discover utter bliss on the path that you've chosen for yourself! :)
my first time here, n i like it!
cheers!
On such occasions..
Just let go...
:)
purely personal opinion
Pearly,
Thanks a lot pearly for ur insight.. :) Its indeed helped me a great deal,I must say.. :)
Welcome home..thanks for blogrolling me..
cheers.. :)
Praveen,
Thanks a lot bro.. :) Yeah,it indeed is a personal opinion.. :)
formalities, monologues? time to move on to something real.
Keshi.
Keshi,
Exactly..and that's what has happened.. :)
its best to move on...i may sound strong, but thats how it is!!
Ria,
:) yeah,it will happen..soon enough..thanks a lot for ur insight on this.. :)
You said it. Moving on is the only way you can expect to see the light. Cheers to you.
Ah... What now?
It's a question that plagues us mortals - never is it as significant as it is in the face of lost love.
You just have to find your own answer - it's the only way :)
Jagjit,
You gotta..!! and here,its okay being a touch selfish.. :)
cheers...
Aneev,
Right,you are.. :) thanks for ur insights..
welcome home.. :)
Wowwwwww, simply loved everything...
if i had to make a choice of opinion on this post, i will say i loved everything except the last line... may b coz i bliv more in holding on strong than letting it go.. :)
gud one......
Nik!
The post is up :)
Devil,
Well..even I too like holding it up..But then,its reached a stage where I cannot hold it anymore and that would be against all that I have held up myself..So,this decision.. :)
changes indicate move in life...so get on
Ash,
Yaayy!! feel good post I must say.. :) thanks..
Joiee,
well said joiee..the conversation with you,yesterday helped.. :)
i loved the last line .. but then ... walking out of it is never easy !!!
Lostmermaid,
It ain't an easy thing..But then,there are times when ur left with no other option..So then,it has to eventually happen..and it will..:)
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